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How to Have the Holidays You've Always Wanted

11/18/2015

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by Deborah Globus
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​Mine is a practical sort of spirituality.
 
Once I suspect something isn’t working, I turn my attention to finding something that will make it work.
 
Case in point: the Starbucks cup debacle.  (Bear with me – I promise this will be enlightening, and not just a little bit humorous!)

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The Practice of Nerd Holidays

5/21/2015

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Building a Life You're Happy With

5/12/2015

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by Deborah Globus
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My marketing coach/web designer/dear friend, Lara, sends out a weekly social media challenge.  The one from two weeks ago really got me thinking.  She’s on the cusp of a big year and it got her thinking back through the decades.

I’ve got quite a few decades behind me, too.  What would me of the past think of me now?


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2014 Remembrance of 9/11

9/11/2014

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by Deborah Globus
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It’s the morning of 9/11, 2014.  The TVs in my house are all set to the 9/11 Memorial taking place less than 50 miles from my house.  Soon there will be the moment of silence and a memory of my husband calling to tell me to turn on the news to watch.

And then there will be the names.

The name of each person lost will be read and I’ll listen.  I’ll cry.  I’ll feel raw for the rest of the day.
Many wonder why I do this each and every year.  Maybe it’s because I’m a New Yorker and these were my people.  Maybe it’s because, as a “minister,” I feel as though it is my duty to  bare witness to those that grieve.

Or maybe it’s because I’m alive.

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The Magic of Assessment - Bookstore Edition

5/8/2014

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by Deborah Globus
OR How to Assess Where You’re At in a Bookstore
(Without Spending  A Dime)
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I know what it’s like to have to save up to buy a book – I still have the book of Earth Prayers I waited weeks to purchase in college.  

I know the pain of putting coveted books back on the shelves.  These days I know the agony of having no more livable space for another book (at least until I cull…)

So I came up with a little trick... 
It's a sweet little practice that allows me to wander joyously through a bookstore randomly pulling books into my arms and savoring them and their potential and learning…without actually needing to spend a fortune on all that loveliness!

Here’s what you’ll need:

  • An hour or two of uninterrupted time
  • A journal and writing implement
  • A place to sit with your ill-gotten gains
  • A cuppa (optional, although it will allow you to sit, guilt-free, in a chair in the café so there’s that!)


Begin with your intention of assessment.  Going in with the idea that this is your intention triggers the subconscious (and your intuition) and keeps it clear that you don’t mean to by every (or any) book you pull.

Wander.  Gather.  Pull books into your arms.  Look through ‘em first.  Or don’t.  Go to your favorite sections.  Go to new-to-you sections.  Allow yourself to be lead.

When you can’t carry any more find someplace to sit.  

Make a tidy pile of your books, spines facing you.  Open your journal and write down the titles.  

See any themes?  Commonalities?  Look back at your books – are there similarities in the colors used or maybe in the fonts?

Once you’ve explored this track, pick up the first book that calls to you.  Peruse it.  Ponder it.  Write down anything from inside it that captures your attention.  

Play along: if this book had a message for you, what would it be?

Now think about the essence of this book.  Why did you pick it?  What did you hope to get from it?  What is the secret (or not so secret) yearning behind the book?  What (if anything) is the perceived lack?  

(For example:  when I end up in the Writer’s Reference section I’m often feeling called back to my long-term writing project but fear that I don’t have the time to commit to it that it deserves so “Let me at least read a little to further my craft and my know-how…”  Then I know to ask the question “Is that really true or would I be better served to just GO and WRITE?”)

Repeat for your other books.

When you’re done, bid your books a fond farewell and thank them, heartily, for their wisdom.  Take time to review what you’ve written and keep the thoughts and learnings fresh.
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Longing by John O'Donohue

3/26/2014

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Jesus, Bummed.

12/21/2013

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by Deborah Globus
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An Advent Reflection for Begin Again 
and the Cloaked Monk

John 3:31-32
1 The one who comes from above is above all; the one who is of the earth belongs to the earth and speaks about earthly things. The one who comes from heaven is above all. 32 He testifies to what he has seen and heard, yet no one accepts his testimony.

Sometimes I think about how much of a bummer it must have been to be Jesus. 


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Forging Authentic Traditions (From Very Different Backgrounds)

12/11/2013

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by Deborah Globus
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We’re an inter-faith family.

But that’s not quite true.

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On a Summer Evening

8/27/2013

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Mush

7/12/2013

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by Deborah Globus
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photo by Des White via Flickr
Did you know that when a caterpillar goes into a chrysalis it doesn’t just grow wings?  It actually liquefies before totally reforming into the butterfly it will be.

Liquefies.

That’s how I feel right now.



Like mush, with all the creative potential for something exquisite.

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    My name is Deborah Globus and I am La Padre.  With me you'll find the support you need to uncover practical, do-able spiritual practices that work for you.  I offer new perspectives on old practices like journaling and ritual, with a side of compassion and a healthy dose of humor, just to keep it down-to-earth and real!

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