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Celebrating Samhain: A family-friendly ritual for Halloween

10/29/2015

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by Deborah Globus
Celebrating Samhain: a family-friendly ritual for Halloween and honoring your ancestors
"The Wheel of the Year spins on and on, bringing us to and from one season and from and to another..."

                                           -Edain McCoy


​Halloween's roots go back much farther than our modern celebrations of jack-o-lanterns and trick-or-treating.  
Across many cultures it's widely acknowledged that this time of year the veil between the world of the living and the world of the dead is thinnest.  It's a time for recalling and recollecting our ancestors, and those that have gone before us.
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This family-friendly ritual provides a magical framework for honoring your own ancestors and introducing your children and other ritual participants to your loved ones that have passed on.
Decorate your altar (or coffee table) with autumn leaves, pumpkins, and/or jack-o-lanterns. Also add four tealights and a central candle.  

Note: each participant should bring a photo, and if possible, a trinket from the person in the picture.  Objects hold stories.  They're the placeholders for our tales; a jumping off point and a good place for the potentially tongue-tied to begin.
Begin by Creating Sacred Space
Light the tealight facing East on your altar and say:

On this Halloween night, we call in Air on the wings of Intellect.

Light the tealight facing South on your altar and say:

On this Halloween night, we call in Fire on the flames of inspiration.


​Light the tealight facing West on your altar and say:
Objects hold stories.  They're the placeholders for our tales.
On this Halloween night we call in Water on the waves of our emotions.

​Light the tealight facing North on your altar and say:

On this Halloween night, we call in Earth on the bones of our body.

Light the central candle and say:

On this Halloween night we call in Spirit, and the souls of those who have gone before.  We come together tonight to honor our ancestors and tell stories of our loved ones who have passed.  On this night, as the veil between the world's is lifted, they hear our voices and take joy in our remembrances,
Take Turns Telling Stories
Go around the room and tell stories.  If you're not sure where to start, begin with the object. Say who it belonged to and pass it around; there's a fascination about objects that the deceased have handled.

Here's an example from my own life: "This rawhide mallet belonged to my grandfather; he used it in his leather-work." I'd then describe the work he did, including some humorous drawback to it (because he was so thrifty, he was notorious for underestimating how big people were so most of his belts didn't fit us!) 

When telling stories with kids, it can be helpful to relate it back to them.  "You come from a long like of artists," I would tell mine.  In Judaism this is called L'Dor Vador - from one generation to the next.  This helps younger children make sense of the connection to their ancestors, and it builds sense of self in older children.  "That's where you get you (fill in positive trait here.)"
Close Your Circle
Blow out your candles and say:

On this Halloween night we thank Air, Fire, Water and Earth for your presence.  We thank Spirit, and the souls of our loved ones.  On this Halloween night, we remember.

All repeat:

We remember.
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    My name is Deborah Globus and I am La Padre.  With me you'll find the support you need to uncover practical, do-able spiritual practices that work for you.  I offer new perspectives on old practices like journaling and ritual, with a side of compassion and a healthy dose of humor, just to keep it down-to-earth and real!

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